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Marital advice in a nutshell – it really is as simple as this!

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Sodomy is rape

Spiritually, sodomy is forbidden. That means it is something no one can impose on us and something we can’t give away to others – who volunteers to be raped? No one sane!

In this new age homosexuality is not to be legally punishable. But this doesn’t mean that homosexual marriage is okay with God. Mr Elton John recons that Jesus would be okay with homosexual marriage, but where did he get this thought from? From his vain imaginings is where. Jesus would never agree to homosexual marriage because marriage is set up by God to be a synergy between male and female. Jesus would never go against the will of God, ever!

Marriage is a synergy of souls and homosexuals cannot make external synergies because they are not internally synergised, No one who breaks the rules of God can ever be internally synergised (whole).

The reason so many marriages break up these days is because one or other of the partners is not internally synergised and therefore they cannot create a marriage synergy. The life span of any marriage that is not wholly synergised is around 4-5 years! Years ago I was a wedding photographer and in the end I had to give it up because I could tell who had a synergy and who didn’t. About 80% didn’t have one on their wedding day and about 50% already had a bag packed! It just got to be too painful to take photos at the majority of weddings!

The purpose of the male in a marriage synergy is to protect himself, the female and the children. The purpose of the female is to protect herself, the children and her husband. Note how the male is last in the woman’s protective order! As a couple they have to protect all from malicious influences.

Now a part of the males role is to protect his synergy partner from rape. But how can he do that if he is raping her himself? Well, obviously, he can’t!  Anal sex is the flavour of the decade. If a man or a woman’s imagination is given permission to go down the homosexual road then that is where it may head. The male may demand anal sex (sodomy) from the female or the female may demand it from the man. Or they may demand it from each other.

It doesn’t really matter who demands it – one is saying I want to rape you, the other is saying I want you to rape me! And the end result of such demands is the removal of their internal synergies! That is the punishment because a house divided can never win! Two houses divided may delay the downfall a little but again they are never going to be able to synergise together because synergies work on wholeness – 1 + 1 = 3. But the non-synergy systems work on multiplication so 1 x . 5 =.5  It will always be less energy than already exists – that is why it can’t win! And if both are internally broken (un-synergised) then the results are even smaller! So .5 x .5 = .25.

Why would a woman demand to be raped? Because pain is very similar to pleasure and, with the aid of the imagination, can be easily transferred over. Plus there are many rape fantasies in marriages because then the female doesn’t have to be responsible for saying “Yes” and the man get a sense of ego power (Rape has nothing to do with sex, it is simply an act of aggression expressed in a sexual way).

The rules of the spiritual laws are different from the rules of the physical world. This is because the physical laws can be manipulated by man whilst the spiritual rules cannot! Physical laws are only rules and regulations, whilst spiritual laws are immutable!

If you are engaging in anal sex think about what I’ve said today and try to stop it – not an easy thing, because it is very pleasureable thing for the males ( and often the masochistic female). The other reason sodomy is forbidden is because it is unclean. Would you stick your penis into a bowl of sewage? Well that is what you are doing with sodomy. I wrote this up on face book as a contrarian joke and people jumped on me from a great height because my reality of sodomy clashed with their (vain imaginings) reality of homosexual sodomy! And they couldn’t see the forest for the trees!

kindest regards,

May Love, Detachment, Health, Happiness, Peace, Success and Prosperity BE yours,

reverend master j’iam

 

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Man and Woman – the heart of the matter

Men and women are born equal as souls and can become equal as souls on the metaphysical level in the station of Man (note the capital M). The station of Man is a nonsexual station that applies to both male and female. Notice how i have changed from man and woman to male and female because that is a more scientific description of the different sexes on the physical level.

It is unfortunate that male and female are described as man and woman in English as most people can’t distinguish between the man and the Man stations and treat bot the same.  This is a hindrance to spiritual progress. 

The station of Man is achieved when we move from the emotion state of working to the logical state of working. There is a saying “Don’t make permanent decisions on your temporary emotions!” And so true!

You see most of the world make their decisions on their emotions and then put there “(emotional) logic” behind that. Completely the wrong way of doing things. Mature people work things out on a logical level and then put their emotions behind that decision! All Men/Man are logical thinkers with enthusiasm behind their decisions. Enthusiasm is not an emothion at all. It means “Intense and eager enjoyment, interest, or approval”  and comes from the root word  enthous which means ‘possessed/inspired by god,’ (based on theos ‘God’ – as in theology etc).

Once we start using enthusiasm we become MAN with a capital M. Personally i stopped using man and women years ago and replaced these two worlds with male and female.

So if the male is the head (as in the brains) and the female is the Heart (as in marital Love) what are their duties in the marriage. The females job is to love her man – LOVE HER MAN! Simple as that. The males job is to protect and love his wife and family. But the man cannot love his wife if she doesn’t love him! He cannot create love in a marriage that isn’t there because that is the females job. And yet how often do we see the females acting as consciousnesses to their husbands, as judges, juries and executioners of his actions? Many, many times. and all these actions lead directly to the divorce courts. 

 

The male is out in the world and often surrounded by unattached single women looking for men. If he comes home to a scowling face he is coming home to ugliness of the worst kind. If his advances are repulsed because “i have wet finger nail polish” or “you’ll ruin my hair” that adds to the repulsion of the wive towards the husband. Men may be dumb but they are not that dumb! They can read the signs of unwelcomeness. If a wife constantly repels her husband how can she complain when he goes off with some else? Isn’t that what she’s been saying through her actions? “Go away, I don’t love you!” Tell people to go away all the time (through your actions, not your words) and what is the result? They go away! We reap what we sow!

Remember love is a plant that grows with TLC (and can die from neglect) not a pole set in concrete and their forever as a right. And the responsibility for the growing and good health of Love within the marriage is the lady!

So women, you fought to win the love of your man, so remember to keep on loving him – to keep him loving you! Do that and you’ll have a long and happy marriages. 

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May Love, Detachment, Health, Happiness, Peace, Success and Prosperity BE yours,

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Marriage

Because I started my lifes journey in Art in the photographic field I ended up doing wedding photography. From attending a wedding every week for several years I started to notice things. Many odf the people getting married were not really fully committing to the relationship – they were basically getting married with their bags already packed! In the end going to these weddings put me off wedding photography so badly I dropped out of that job permanently!

Once in a while you’d get a really good marriage starting up but we were lucky if they were 1 in 5! 3 in 5 were okay to various degrees and I wished them luck. But 1 in 5 were pointless – there was no reason for them to get married because one or both of them already had their bags packed.

The marriage ceremony is about commitment, about two people committing to each other for life. But more often than not it’s about ceremony, rather than commitment. Let me say this bluntly. If the commitment isn’t whole and double-sided then the marriage is doomed to a life expectancy of 5, or less, years. Physical attraction can hold people together for up to five years, but if the wholistic commitment isn’t made within that time then “POOF!!” up it goes in smoke!

Any of us can be fooled. Just over 4 years ago I married a lady who wanted a big wedding ceremony, but didn’t want to be married to me! I was very loyal and kept the marriage going for 3 and half years until i was exhausted from the effort! We went to marriage guidance after only three months of marriage and she sat there saying, “He just wants to be married to me!” as if there was something wrong with that.  Duh, of course I did, I was in love with her, but apparently she wasn’t with me and not committed either.  If she had known herself better she could have been honest with me and I would have gone through the ceremony for her, but not signed the legal papers! It would have been much easier on me, I can tell you.

In the Bible is says , “to the level of your belief it shall be given to you.” If you replace the word faith with commitment it is still 100% true! Faith and commitment are very closely related – like the Brown kiwi and the grey kiwi – variations of the same species!

So I say to you you, commit, commit, commit! Be slow to commit and even slower to break that commitment. But when the commitment is supposed to be two sided and only one side is working, don’t be afraid to break it because commitments on the spiritual level are actually called synergies, and marriage is designed to be a synergy. The formula for a synergy is 1+1=3 because the sum of the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. Synergies can only be formed between whole people. But if we make a synergy with a non-whole person it no longer adds up but multiplies instead. So if we have a whole person that totals 1 plus a non-whole person (which we will call half/.5) the multiplying the two together always totals less than 1 – 1x.5=.5 !! If you think about it in another way, the negative person always drains the positive person acting like a lightening rod to drain the energy away and not keeping any of the energy for itself!

So how does one become whole? By uniting body, brain and soul into one by commons goals and synergising the three to work together. The Bible talks about a “House divided can never win” If we translate that from the double negative (divided/never) into a single positive then it reads “A house united (synergised/united) will always win!”  A house united is an internal synergy. A marriage is an external synergy that needs two synergised people to make it work. A synergy made between a synergised person and a non-synergised on is always going to fail because the energy levels of the “synergy” is always going to be below one. Nothing under one ever works (except on paper!)

A non-working synergy is quite easily broken by the synergised partner. It cannot be kept going by the non-synergised partner. It only requires a few words from the synergised partner mouth to “disband” the synergy and make him/herself whole again.

And that is where the damage comes from in an incorrect synergy. By taking on a non-synergised partner (be it personal or business) you are effectively making yourself non-whole again, separated, dis-united. By getting rid of the non-whole portion of your life (the non-whole partner) you effectively go back to being whole within yourself again and the power starts to flow again! Ah, Happy days!