Men and women are born equal as souls and can become equal as souls on the metaphysical level in the station of Man (note the capital M). The station of Man is a nonsexual station that applies to both male and female. Notice how i have changed from man and woman to male and female because that is a more scientific description of the different sexes on the physical level.
It is unfortunate that male and female are described as man and woman in English as most people can’t distinguish between the man and the Man stations and treat bot the same. This is a hindrance to spiritual progress.
The station of Man is achieved when we move from the emotion state of working to the logical state of working. There is a saying “Don’t make permanent decisions on your temporary emotions!” And so true!
You see most of the world make their decisions on their emotions and then put there “(emotional) logic” behind that. Completely the wrong way of doing things. Mature people work things out on a logical level and then put their emotions behind that decision! All Men/Man are logical thinkers with enthusiasm behind their decisions. Enthusiasm is not an emothion at all. It means “Intense and eager enjoyment, interest, or approval” and comes from the root word enthous which means ‘possessed/inspired by god,’ (based on theos ‘God’ – as in theology etc).
Once we start using enthusiasm we become MAN with a capital M. Personally i stopped using man and women years ago and replaced these two worlds with male and female.
So if the male is the head (as in the brains) and the female is the Heart (as in marital Love) what are their duties in the marriage. The females job is to love her man – LOVE HER MAN! Simple as that. The males job is to protect and love his wife and family. But the man cannot love his wife if she doesn’t love him! He cannot create love in a marriage that isn’t there because that is the females job. And yet how often do we see the females acting as consciousnesses to their husbands, as judges, juries and executioners of his actions? Many, many times. and all these actions lead directly to the divorce courts.
The male is out in the world and often surrounded by unattached single women looking for men. If he comes home to a scowling face he is coming home to ugliness of the worst kind. If his advances are repulsed because “i have wet finger nail polish” or “you’ll ruin my hair” that adds to the repulsion of the wive towards the husband. Men may be dumb but they are not that dumb! They can read the signs of unwelcomeness. If a wife constantly repels her husband how can she complain when he goes off with some else? Isn’t that what she’s been saying through her actions? “Go away, I don’t love you!” Tell people to go away all the time (through your actions, not your words) and what is the result? They go away! We reap what we sow!
Remember love is a plant that grows with TLC (and can die from neglect) not a pole set in concrete and their forever as a right. And the responsibility for the growing and good health of Love within the marriage is the lady!
So women, you fought to win the love of your man, so remember to keep on loving him – to keep him loving you! Do that and you’ll have a long and happy marriages.
May Love, Detachment, Health, Happiness, Peace, Success and Prosperity BE yours,
reverend master j’iam
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